Clubbing @ 7

Went to Seven last Friday after a long long long clubbing drought. I swear, there's like NO good clubs in Melbourne anymore =.=

Wore these shoes:

that Dirk is holding like a phone (??) coz I had to take them off coz they were KILLING ME. One of those stupid things where u KNOW u'll end up with blisters all over your foot but u can't resist coz it's such a cute shoe! Dammit.

Another picture of my lovely shoes.

Hmm.. my shoes aren't very photogenic, just like me :( (They look better in real life.. i swear..)

I saw them in the shop window and fell in love straight away. HAD to have them... even tho they were ridiculously overpriced for the comfort and quality.

It was just one of those things ....

Also wore my VITA bracelet

in peacock (shown here in white) which is actually a bit too big for my tiny wrist but it was ALSO one of those things I had to have. =D

There's a lot of things I have to have. xD

Anyways, random pics thoughout the night.

Tina looking hot.

Red faced asians.

Juicy bag thingy. (Too bad it's fake) and Eric off his head.

I'm wearing my bling bling lashes which I've blogged about before(finally got to wear them!!). Can kinda see them here...
Eric is fuckeddddd...

Hmm.. the night was pretty good, altho some fucken people did dampen our spirits.. But won't dwell on that since after thinking it thru, petty selfish fucks can just be treated like charity cases.

(Like letting the fat retarded kid eat his own shit coz he enjoys the taste and doesn't know any better) ---> don't think that makes sense but ohhh well...

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Went to Forever New and got these 2 tops and a dress.

Retail therapy is great <3

Noobs

Noobs are fine. Everyone was a noob once. But what i hate.. is when

NOOBS TRY TO FUCKING ACT LIKE THEY KNOW EVERYTHING
.

*Computer noob is searching for stuff on Limewire on my computer*

Me: Don't download random .exe files off Limewire, they might be viruses

Computer noob: Yeh yeh yeh~

*5 minutes later*

Me: Are you installing something??

Computer noob: Yeh.. just updating your limewire with this "limewirepatch.exe".

Me: I told you not to download .exe files

Computer noob: Don't worry.. this will make your downloads faster....... hey.. why did the computer freeze??

Me: .....................

Eyelashes

I'm so happy!! Was browsing through a random shop and i found these babies.

Shiny glittery false lashes! Perfect for going out/clubbing!
And they were only 2 bux~~ omg... I feel like i'm in asia again

So so happy =D

They too fakeish for everyday wear.. Gonan wear them next time I go out man =D

I can't live without false eyelashes !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Who knew that some crappy little hairs on ur eyelid (ewww that sounds so gross) could be so aesthetically important?

There's nothing like a pair of long luscious lashes to complete any look.

I've tried so many eyelash enhancing thingys ~~ mascara, eyelash extensions, stupid make-your-lashes-grow-longer theories (still questionable if they work btw) and I've come to the conclusion that nothing can beat fake eyelashes.

They own the ever so popular mascara in so many ways:

- won't smudge!!! (after a night out i used to come home with panda eyes.. but with fake lashes that's no more)
- stays curled (after curling my damn straight lashes and putting on coats and coats of mascara the lashes will straigthen themselves out after a while.. fucken gay)
- no clumps (pretty self explanatory)
- no ARSENIC !!! (did you know mascara contains arsenic as an ingredient!)
- easy to remove (just peel off)
- hides dodgy eyeliner jobs (i dunno how but it just does)

See the difference ~~ its something you can never achieve with mascara ~~~ and after my own traumatic experience I recommend people to NEVER EVER get eyelash extensions (long story).....

MmmmmmMmm.. and they so easy to apply if you set your mind on learning the proper way.
It's not hard at all dammit you lazy people...

ANYWAYS my point was i got some nice lashes wheeeeeee....

CAN'T WAIT TO WEAR THEM!!!!!!

People need to wake up :(

Example One

Girl meets boy, boy likes girl, boy chases girl, girl refuses but eventually yields under his persistence and persuasive powers.

AS SOON AS THEY get together... GIRL BECOMES A FUCKEN DOORMAT.

She thinks back to how good and sweet the guy was while he was chasing her and somehow OKs all the SHIT he puts her through. Meanwhile, on the side her friends are hopping around like grasshoppers in frustration as she just doesn't listen to REASON which they try to install (<- can't remember the right word) into her thick head.

Boy has questionable contact with his ex (going to her place for hours and hours thus being late for plans with Girl). Girl is upset about this.. But is TOO SCARED to tell Boy to stop as he will just throw a temper tantrum with her. However, when Girl talks to another guy Boy will be furious.

The guy literally changes overnight. Talks down to her, short temper etc. and him AND HIS FAMILY literally sucks her finances dry. In the whole time they dated, she worked FULL TIME and by the end of the relationship she had NO savings. at all. zilch. Not to mention the emotional trauma she had to go thru. In tears all the time and wondering "i dont know why he doesn't care!!"

The girl is ussually fiesty and you never have to worry about someone wronging her as she will always stand up for herself when she is out in public. However.. to every single one of the boys many and unreasonable demands she will meekly obey.

One of the many things she was put thru: Family invites her out for yum cha. Eat eat eat. Bill comes. Boy says: "oh by the way you have to pay."

and it gradually gets worse. Following that, the same scene ensues, however family decides it's very appopriate to invite friends and other relatives to enjoy the lovely meal as well. And guess who had to foot the lovely bill?

After this relationship ends (thank god) it was found out that the Boy was flirting around with other girls the whole time, Girl had no money in her pocket at all and Boy still owed her money. (Which he tried to pay back by hiding a 5 dollar note in a stack of 50s).

.. and it doesn't end here. You would have thought that after this relationship Girl would come out a better smarter person. But NO. She dates another guy who is EXACTLY like this one.. but worse. Despite countless warnings, AND while the relationship was not stable girl went to the bank and took out a loan with EIGHTEEN PER CENT interest and gave all the money to the guy. And she didn't even know what he was going to use the loan for! Nope!!! She was "too scared" to ask!

Despite giving him the loan money, the guy always had 'no money' for anything... and Girl basically gave him her bank card which he used to go out drinking with friends, buy DVDs for his ex and all the nice things in life etc...

Meanwhile, Girl had no money.. had to resort to eatting RICE AND BOILED SWEET POTATOs for lunch at work. One time she had no money to buy a tram ticket even. Asked the guy to BORROW 50 bucks... Guy: "I don't have 50 bux to spare"

One particular incident shows the sheer selfishness of the guy.

Girl is at home sleeping on a rare day off and guy is in the city doing god knows what.
He calls her up: "hey i need to park in the city but I have no change on me, can you come and gimme some."

So girl actually crawls out of bed, gets ready really quickly (in case he gets pissed she is taking too long) and takes the tram to the city.. TO GIVE HIM PARKING CHANGE.

She calls him up: "Hey I'm almost at the city now."
Guy: "Don't call me until you're HERE."


Example Two

Girl really loves Boy. Girl KNOWS boy is not a good person (will fuck anything that moves). Whenever Girl is overseas or not around, Boy will literally flirt with every normal and above girl he meets (and this includes Girl's friends and good friends). The guy is so fucken open about it it's not funny.

There could be a whole room full of people that knows about GIrl and Boys relationship yet Boy will still walk around asking girls for kisses etc. He also has a vile mouth. In one particular incident a girl was wearing a low cut top while playing drinking games with him. Boy says: "hey if you pull that top a bit lower i'll let u win this round for sure." WHO THE FUCK says shit like that ?!?!?! To a girl that is familiar with his GF too!!

Boy is always fucking around behind Girls back as she is often overseas.

Anyways, Boy is physically abusive with Girl too. When the mood strikes his fancy he will pin her down on the bed and slap her face repeatedly. She hides at home for days after these incidents so as to hide her swollen face.

Now, insert Girl's "good friend". All being roommates, Girl will go to this 'good friend' whenever she has troubles with Boy, and 'good friend' will comfort her. 'Good friend' also has a boyfriend of her own. However, 'good friend' has always had a thing for Boy and has fucked around with him while Girl was previously overseas. Recently, after a particularly bad argument 'good friend' managed to convince Girl to go back overseas away from Boy for some time apart.

After GIrl went back overseas, 'good friend' sleeps with Boy every night. Boy continually tries to pick up every time he goes out.

After finding out that 'good friend' has betrayed her, Girl not only accepts it, but is so generous as to think for Boy. "He has his needs and if i'm not there to give them to him then just let him do that if she ('good friend') wants to be so cheap. In the end they will have no chance as he wil be coming bak overseas to me soon anyway.". And just like that, Girl accepts it.


Example Three

Boy is an extreme jealous freak. It doesn't show that much after first getting together, but bit by bit Girl is seperated and isolated from all friends.

It starts off with the guilt (haha i typed guild) trips.
"Awww baby but i wanna see you can't you go out with your friends another time?"

Then moves on to the constant monitering.
While Girl is out with friends.
Boy calls: "Where are you? Who with? When are you going to be home? Don't go home too late."

The 'it's for your own good' spiel.
"He's such a player I don't want you to hang around people like that."
"Don't be too close to her shes a slut I don't want you to lower ur image by always being with her."

Continual guilt trips.
"Oh so you'll choose to go out with THEM over ME. So you wanna see THEM instead of ME. I thought I came first? Why aren't I coming first ?!?!"

Reminders of how 'lucky' you are.
"I have to do everything for you. You can't do anything by urself. You are nothing without me."
"I do all this because i CARE about you."

Put downs masked as love and care.
On a random day in the city, Girl sees acquaintance and waves and smiles at him.
Boy: "Why did you give such a SLUTTY smile to him. Are you that happy to see him? Why do you have to so actively say hi to him? Just say hi if he sees you and says it."

Warped logic.
"WHY DID YOU UNBLOCK ALL THE GUYS ON YOUR MSN? (after he blocked them all) ARE U THAT DESPERATE TO TALK TO THEM? ARE YOU THAT DESPERATE FOR GUY ATTENTION."

Basically, in the end Girl was isolated into a loser. Was distanced from many good friends. Was thought of as 'cold' when meeting new people as her behaviour was shaped like this by Boy. All because she didn't stop it at the start when it began to happen as she thought "he does this coz he cares". Argh!



See the pattern? These stories (all true) are so damn frustrating!! People will accept behaviour and things they would normally never accept when they are so blinded by people that are obviously no good for them at all.

The majority of the time things DON'T change for the better and they don't realize that the more they let the person act like this the more it will happen.

In my opinion, once someone starts treating and talking to you like shit, and they get what they want from treating you that way. Why would they go bak to being nice? Everyone is selfish in some way, and will always ask for more more more. As much as someone may hope it would happen, people are not gonna just suddenly wake up and go "oh wow i'm treating this person like shit maybe i should stop". They KNOW they are treating you crappy. But why stop when they are being rewarded for this bad behaviour? hmmmm?!

Boring long post with literally no complaints

Well.. APPARENTLY all I do in my blogs is complain and bitch and moan about stuff and swear too much. So I decided to write a fucking boring post with literally no complaints (see title zzzzzZZzzZZzZZZZZz)...

So like on Saturday three lovely people, Susie, Nathan (my bf) and I went to Mornington which is some random place about an hours drive away from Melbourne.

Our main intention of going was to experience the hot springs which is supposedly good for your skin and relaxing blah blah blah etc...

However, coz it was so booked out n stuff the only available time was for 6:45PM !!

So what to do?

CHERRY PICKING OF COZ.

Man.. we went about it stupidly tho!!

Cherry picking nubs.... cherry picking virgins... oook that just sounded a bit WRONG... haha *covers eyes shyly*

Being cheap asians, upon hearing that you can 'eat all u want' once inside. We decided to skip breakfast and just go inside and have a big feast of cherries.. this was the FIRST mistake. I think once inside I ate about... 10 cherries at most ? It's just not a substitute for an actual real meal =.=

Weird tho.. coz cherries are like pretty pricey if you buy them outside so I'm always craving for them.. but when you're surrounded by them its like... meh.....

SECOND mistake was allocating like 2 - 3 hours of our schedule for it. I think we were only inside the Cherry farm for a bit over an hour. There's actually not much to do.. except pick cherries (and take photos of course).

I can't be bothered uploading all the photos we took so i'll just upload one (above..obviously) to prove that we did go pick cherries. What a lovely artistic shot 8-)

In the end we only picked like half a kilo each (it's actually hard quite hard work) and couldn't be bothered anymore haha...

It was so fucken funy tho.. coz the other people there were like.. fully pros at picking.. these old ladies were like crawling under bushes n stuff to get the ripest and most juiciest berries. I even saw one woman with scissors snipping them off into her bucket o.O.

There was this other family of like 3 generations (gramps and granny, mom and dad, annoying kid and annoying kid) all in this joint effort who had like a whole freaking bucket.

There was also this other guy who every time we saw him was standing on like the top rungs of the ladders getting the Cherries at the top of the tree. He was never standing on the ground ... >.<

There are some super serious cherry pickers i tell you!!

Anyways, while we were inside SUSIE saw this guy who looked pretty decent. (IIIIII wasn't looking IIIII'm a good girl *innocent eyes*) and just as we were about to leave we saw him in the distance with his girlfriend. We walked/ran (more like sprinted off) to get a closer look (coz it's like.. the most obvious thing to do .. DUH!)...

she was..

SO UGLY.

It was like...

umm that random chinese proverb I don't know what it is exactly but its about sticking a fresh flower into a pile of cow shit.

Yeh yeh I know it's mean.. but OMG he could do SO MUCH better!! What is with that.. good looking people and ugly people.

ANyways.. my theories for that are :

- the ugly person will treat the good looking person extra nice to make up for the difference in attractiveness

- the good looking person will make themselves look even better by standing next to a ugly person (like the hot chicks who always have some random fat ugly friend)

- (this is the wisdom of susie) "After eatting too much oyster and abalone one may feel like sampling some PORK once in a while."

I can never understand those hot celebrities who have hot husbands but their husband decides to cheat on them with the fucking plain looking MAID.

I swear .. some guys are like dogs .. will fuck anything that moves.. (or is it all guys..?)..

errr anyways ~~

Went to this market thats only there once a month and nothing much to report.. just heaps of cute handmade stuff. I really really wanted this jewerly stand.. I've been looking for one like that for ages but OMG got talked out of it and now I regret not getting it coz like you CAN'T FIND IT LIKE THAT ANYWHERE (unless its super super overpriced omg)!!! It's like got hooks for necklaces and also these little holes for earrings it was like.. THE ULTIMATE JEWELRY STAND. Goddamn.. didn't even take a photo of it... and now its prolly gonna get bought by some other fucker !!! GRRRRR....

Now i'll hafta prolly buy one off etsy ... I'm eyeing this one... but damn the exchange rate sucks and postage and handling :( aiya.. i NEEEEED a jewelry stand ...

http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?ref=sr_list_13&listing_id=18343689

Hmmm and we saw these random cute animals in the market.. I think they are lamas??

Apparently their fur is used to make carpets and scarves n stuff..

This black one is so cute... hehe...

Anyways... after ages of dilly dallying we finally went off to the hot springs.

The one we booked was Peninsula Hot Springs. Not gonna show any photos coz make up was taken off and we looked disgusting.

We booked this private outdoor bath coz we didn't wanna go to the public baths and bathe with random people coz its just weird..

Hmmm what can I say about it.. It was pretty nice. Ours was a 45 minute session. But I actually think even 30 minutes is enuff. The water was 39 degrees but its like really fucking hot. Every now and then u gotta get up to cool down or u'd prolly faint. Susie was so wasteful! She'd go into the water for like 5 minutes. Then leave and lie down for 15 minutes. Then come bak and stay for another 5 min!! We were both laughing at her.

It felt like most of the time she was lying down OUT of the water saying "oh i feel so relaxed".. heeheee heee!!!!

It was a really nice place .. and they made a big effort to make the place all peaceful with trees n stuff surrounding you.. it's like the perfect place for taking your boytoys to once your all rich and married and your husband has no time for you coz hes off making money to satisfy all your material needs so you feel neglected and because of that you find hot young guys like Gabrielle in Desperate Housewives and the gardener but really you just want your husband back but you can't live without the money he makes coz you are used to the lavish lifestyle he has bestowed upon you.

=D

hahaha.. i kid i kid... ;)

Anyways.. after your time is up this guy comes and rings a bell to tell you and then you make your way back to this 'relaxation room' where you can sip all these weird and wonderful blends of herbal tea (which i actually found pretty disgusting cept for one since i'm not exotic enuff =[) ...

Hmmm.. Then we drove bak to boring old melbourne and had dinner at boring old springvale and the highlight of THAT part was taking a pic of me sleeping in the car looking disgusting with my mouth randomly open. But i was too smart and deleted the pic before any copies could be made !!!
hahaha suckersss....

anywayss...

NEXT POST SHALL BE AN EXTRA BITCHY ONE TO MAKE UP FOR THIS BORING BLAND POST.

Oh yeh...

Cherry farm is like 5 bux entry.

Each kilo of cherries are 12 bux. (however they will weigh the bucket when you go pay which adds like 2 bux to the real weight of the cherries)

The hot springs was like 130 bux for a private outdoor thingy for 3 people. Public bathing is cheaper but it's like so popular now so you aren't guaranteed a spot and they don't take bookings for it. So if you drive all the way there and they are full then bad luck :(

heehee!