Stereotype of the day

AMEX users : pretentious stuck up snobs.

Online shopping

Getting back into the swing of things with a spot of online shopping...

What I got:

Eyelashes T

Floral dress

This top thingy (two layered so you can wear the top layer over a bikini at the beach :P)

Dress with lace side (comes in white too)

I read reviews about the website and they were VERY mixed.. so *crosses fingers*

xD

Currently still lusting after an Eva clutch which is my absolute HG of small handbags.

With the price decrease at LV maybe it's time to buy? ^^

The definition of perfection:

LVOES!!

omfg I went to my old high school today to hand in the enrollment forms for my brother coz he's going there next year. I swear, schools have turned into the biggest money grabbing whores now. They have a building appeal "donation" fund but it's not really 'donation' at all. Basically they send you INVOICES each year to pretty much force you to pay up. Back when I went there each year they would send you a YEARLY invoice telling you a specific amount they wanted you to pay as a 'donation'.

Now they have a PLAQUE at the school, ranking families into GOLD SILVER AND BRONZE donors. WTF!!!

ANyways.... I WANT THIS!!

But its out of stock :(

She is so cute :D

One strike and you're out

Wow I found this half finished post written ages ago and I can't remember what point I was trying to make with it in the end but anyways I thought up an ending to it so here it goes. ..

The camera on my phone stopped working!! FUCK!

NEVER BUY SAMSUNG PHONES

They are absolutely shit...

Anyways, look how hot this woman is.

In case you dunno who she is, it's Elin Nordegren, Tiger Woods' wife.

The wife he cheated on with up to 13 (???) or so women including cocktail waitresses and porn stars.

Here is a picture of him on one of his good days.

Here is Elin again

Absolutely gorgeous right?

Comparing them superficially in terms of looks only, is like that Chinese saying about a fresh flower stuck in a pile of cow shit.

Anyways, my point of this post was to quote something funny a friend said a while ago about her ex bf who did something similar.

"After having too much lobster, he goes off every now and then to have some pork."

Anna Sui

Omg I'm a sucker for cute packaging!!

Look at this:

Anna Sui make up box.

Isn't it the cutest thing ever!!

It's mine mine mine~! =D

I saw it on Sasa.com and I couldn't resist.

So addicted to Anna Sui packaging now.

I did some research and apparently the actual products aren't actually that spectacular.

But what it lacks it makes up for in looks!!

It's kinda like when u make more allowances for good looking ppl to have shittier personalities... and HOT DAMN Anna Sui packaging is pretty!! (haha not really ;) !! or is it?! )

I want a whole dresser full of Anna Sui stuff omg.

Look at these ~

HOW CUTE ARE THEY!!!

The mirror and stuff come in white as well, but the black is supposed to last longer and be better quality =D

Sooo cute.

I almost bought the mirror too but it was kinda pricey and I couldn't really justify spending soooo much on a mirror.

When I was in China last year I did buy a knock off. But the quality was kinda shit and it broke within a few months. Pretty devastated T_T

Then.. I was in the city one day and I saw this.. and immediately it was mine

"Inspired" Anna Sui mirror in some fobby shop on Lonsdale St. It was less than 9 bux :P

Omg *srsly addicted*.

Plz plz plz open up a Sasa in Australia.

Speaking of pretty packaging, I also got this mascara:

Majolica Majorca. This brand is like part of Shiseido, kinda like how Boujours is part of Chanel.

THIS IS THE BEST MASCARA EVER. OHMYGODASM.

I had already gave up mascara for false lashes, but this one is srsly making me consider coming bak omggg..... will post photos later when i can be fucked.

Anyways, I saw a real douche bag guy the other day wearing those weird Akon sunnies that aren't really sunnies. The ones that are just plastic with the stripes across. Who the fuck would wear that on the street man. ANd he was strutting around like he was really cool or something talking loudly on his mobile. I think he was chinese too.

So fucken embarassing man =.=

Juicy piggies and shoes

I picked up my new shoes =D

I must say Wittner ship their shoes from store to store damn fast. 

I ordered on Wed afternoon, they arrived by Friday.

My new babies

So damn comfy, and did I mention that LOVE PATENT LEATHER.

Seriously comfortable

They have heels yet don't kill your feet when u walk..

I LOVE PATENT LEATHER OMFG!!

Speaking of shoes, check out my giant slipper:

hehe! It's a feet warmer I bought in china for 30 rmb.

That's like.. 5 bux Aus.

Taken out of the closet and ready for Winter.

=D

Something else I bought in China:

Mobile holder that you can hang onto your bag!

50 rmb =p

I love shopping in China =p

lalalala

lalalala

On a side note, has anyone been reading in the papers how Richard Pratt's wife allowed his mistress to visit his deathbed? 

What a generous woman... if my husband was dying I wouldn't give his fucken mistress the time of the day. 

KNOWING that a guy is married, and then screwing around with him and having a child from it is just...immoral. And as for the bastard child... well she can blame her own gold-digging slut of a mother for the "unfairness" that she would encounter in her life coz her mom couldn't keep her panties on. 

Hmm. But then again it takes two to tango.

All I'm saying is his wife is indeed very generous as she has been described in the papers.

Grrr I hate gold diggers..

Breaking up

I would say one of the the worst feelings I've ever experienced in my so far (relatively short 22 years) life is that of a break up.

Heartache hurts more than any physical pain I have experienced so far, and there is just no real way to escape it. 

I have always tried to avoid getting really hurt in a relationship. I probably never really put in 100% - I guess you can say that I am selfish, but I guess one of my biggest fears is to be completely vulnerable to another person. 

"Smart" quotes always tell you to give it your 100%, and "love like you've never been hurt before", and things like "it's better to have love and lost, then never to have loved at all." But seriously, I think very few people who have actually experienced heartbreak before would actually go into future relationships 100% again without some sort of self control and protection. 

The first time I was really heartbroken was breaking up with my first bf. I couldn't eat, couldn't concerntrate, and cried myself to sleep every night. I thought I would never care about anyone else again. It was one of the worst months of my life. 

After that experience, I learned my lesson and 'protected' myself. I never really trusted another guy again, and also used "self control" - not falling head over heels for people and always trying to limit myself in not making someone too important in my life. 

Recently, I broke up with my bf. We almost reached 1.5 years. These two weeks since things ended have been so confusing and difficult. I've cried, laughed, then cried again (oh my god I'm not crazy.. i swear x_X!!) I've never experienced anything like it. 

Sometimes I feel bitter over how things turned out, because I feel that it was he who chose a future path that didn't include me. 

Sometimes I feel regret, over things I could have done differently (such as starting the relationship in the first place!! haha jkjk). 

Sometimes I'm so sad, because we had such happy times together and yet things still came to an end. 

:(

It's confusing to me, and I don't know if it is because I am too naiive. Friends have said "sometimes you meet the right person, but it's just not the right time or place." or "sometimes no matter how much u love someone you just can't be with them."

Well these things sound bullshit to me. Coz IF you do love someone then what is there to stop you from being together?

Maybe he just didn't love me.

I don't know. It doesn't matter anymore. I hate break ups.

Broke but happy

Gah~~I am so damn broke!!!

Been buying and buying and buying without being sustainable coz I don't get any damn shifts at work.

The manager is a @#%@#%@#$. She doesn't do her job properly, favors people, bullies people.. generally makes an already crap place to work even worse!

Basically, it's suck up or get treated like shit.

One guy does absolutely NOTHING. When it's busy and there is a lot of work to do he basically just stand's around and SCRATCHES HIS ARMS.. and she doesn't do SHIT coz he sucks up like no tomorrow.

Everyone fucking hates him. His whole shift he stands around and shuffles papers and tidies the pens. And when the manager walks past, does she tell him off? Nope. Starts having private conversations. Oh. My. God. Seriously?

Another guy gets treated SO BADLY. She basically gives him the BARE MINIMUM shifts to work (3 hours every 2 months) and then after he is rostered for that shift she will call someone else to replace him, then move him to another shift. How fucking pissed would you be!! Even when there are shifts available she will purposely tell us "DON'T CALL HIM".

And worst of all, the "union" that is supposed to be 'fighting for workers rights' doesn't do jack shit. He calls them up to complain, and they are like "oh you have to be a member for us to do anything and joining right now won't help because we only deal with issues that happen AFTER you join."

Fucking asshole union. The union is supposed to stand for a cause right? To uphold workers rights, make sure they get a fair go. But no, they only care if you pay them the stupid membership fee. FUcken assholes. Since when were unions supposed to be so commercialised.

I've been trying to quit the union for 3 months.

Went to their website. They ONLY go on and on about how good it is to join, be part of something big etc etc. NOTHING about how to leave.

So I call them up. The woman that picks up the phone says in the bitchiest voice: "Is there any particular reason you want to leave?"

"I don't think the union is actually doing what it's supposed to stand for and I don't want to be a part of it anymore."

"Well you can't jsut leave just like that. You need to send us an email and we will send you a letter back. You then take this letter to your employer so they can stop your payments."

So I do just that. Sent an e-mail straight away stating name, membership number and intention to leave.

A month goes by....

I send another mail.

Another month goes by...

FUCKEN HELL MAN.

How long does it take to read one e-mail.

So I went into work to ask them to just terminate the payment. They can't. I'm told to send a letter by snail mail. This was a month ago...

Still waiting...GRRRR

Anyways onto my purchases =D

Longchamp Les Pliage Tote in Medium Black. $189.

I've ALWAYS wanted one of these!! It's like so damn good and convenient. Fit's everything. I love the simple style of it, matches everything. Perfect size too.

I was browsing around their website and saw this:

A BACKPACK style of this line. Isn't it the most disgusting thing you've ever seen??! Oh my god!! Who the hell would wear it... Oh my god.. a BACKPACK what were they thinking =\

I also got this MIMCO wallet:

Comes in pink as wellWasn't actually a huge fan of it when I saw it, mainly due to the tassle thing.

But now I'm super in love with it. The style is so unique and I took the tassle thingy off.

It's got a nice interior as well. Selling at DJs for like$169 but the Mimco outlet had it for $99.95. Then I got a further 20% off coz they are having a sale!! All up $79.95. Bargain!!!

I heart Mimco.

Here's another pic of it without the tassle

Which brings me to my next purchase....

MSI Wind U100 mini netbook!!!!

HOW CUTE IS IT?!?!!?

It's like perfect for uni. Perfect size, weight, and functions. Not as small as the tiny tiny eepcs and looks a whole lot better (in my opinion). I love love love it so much. xD

Performance is surprisingly good for something so compact.

Comes in 3 colors: white, black and pink.

Although the white one looks the best, I picked black coz it wouldn't get so dirty after a while. =p

Pink was never an option coz I never buy feminine gadets!! Which is why my Ipod is blue and my NDS is white.

Hmmm.... anyways I leave you with a random pic of a huge ice cream we ate in the city. Doesn't look too nice but tasted awesome.

Green tea flavor is the bestttt

My cookie

So... I was having a pretty bad day. Long story ....

Anyways, I'm at the train station and spot a vending machine.

Not having had lunch, I decide to be kind to myself and buy myself a cookie.

Put my money in the machine.

Cookie moves closer to be dispensed....

AND GETS STUCK AT THE LAST SECOND.

That's just the last straw.

Hysterical, I give the machine a mightly kick. The cookie budges one millimetre.

The sound causes ppl to look at me with those "omg what a weirdo" corner-of-the-eye looks.

But I don't care.

I WANT MY DAMN COOKIE.

I hurl abuse at the machine for a while.

It stands there insolently.

So I give it another mighty kick.

Cookie moves another millimetre..but is STILL STUCK.

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR...

My anger increases tenfold.

In the end my bf had to put another two dollars fifty in the machine to get the damn cookie out just to calm me down.

... it didn't even taste good...

Retail woes - general consumer attitudes

I hate working in retail, I really do.



My theory is that everyone should work in retail at least once in their lives - then there would be a lot less rude bitches and assholes walking around.



Manners and general social etiquette disapear for many people as soon as they walk into a store: yelling and swearing after being overcharged a whopping ONE DOLLAR, the sarcastic eye roll when told something is out of stock, whistling and snapping of the fingers to get my attention, the grunt in response to your 'hi how are you' ussually paired with the ungrateful snatching of their bag of stuff at the end... I could go on forever.



People seem to think that retail workers are dumb, stupid high school drop outs with sub par intelligence who can't find 'real jobs' and therefore deserve to be treated like absolute shit. In actual fact, a lot of us are in university, completing our degrees while working part time trying to gain some work experience or just some extra cash on the side.



Why do you think the staff turnover rate is so high in retail? Coz working in retail is only a TEMPORARY part of our lives until we move onto bigger and better things.



Now, the attitude many people have (and i quote) are "they should have stayed in school" and "it's their job, it's what they are getting paid to do."



As I have already said, many retail workers ARE actually in University, or completing high school (yes we do have real lives outside of work). BUT.. even if someone was a high school drop out, what gives people the right to treat them any differently? So maybe they aren't the brightest of people, maybe they don't have the intelligence, maybe they just don't WANT TO. At least they are trying to earn money to support themselves. How does that give people a free pass to treat them like crap.



Yes, we are getting paid to help you out and serve you, but would it KILL YOU to be civil.



Just because I WORK here doesn't mean I will eat, live and DIE here.

I didn't purposely overcharged you ONE DOLLAR to rip you off and put that WHOPPING ONE DOLLAR into my own pocket.



So you bought a faulty product.. shit happens... come back, tell us nicely what the problem is and we will do our best to give you an exchange or refund .. don't come into the store yelling and abusing me or I might suddenly feel the need to enforce our strict refund policy which doesn't allow any returns on your particular item ;)



Didn't mama ever tell you to ask nicely?

My new bag =D

Don't you hate it when you see something you like, however decide to defer the purchase of it for a few hours so you can 'shop around' and see what else is out there.

Then when you realise nothing else can compare you come back to realise some FAGGOT has bought it.

It just makes you wanna punch yourself.. especially when you see said product dangling on the arm of the less deserving bitch who sneakily claimed victory by stealing what is yours..

And u feel sad and depressed coz you walked around all day looking around

You're feet are sore, legs are tired, and you have NOTHING TO SHOW for it.

You realize you'll never find another product that is quite the perfect shape, size, color etc.

You want to kick yourself but you're too tired to even lift your legs.

So you go home that day and mourn your loss for a few weeks while cursing the bitch to damnation.

And then one bright sunny day you are out shopping again and your prayers are answered.

The shop r e s t o c k e d.

My new bag.

=D

Internet warriors

I joined Vent (something similar to Skype but with a lot more people) under the name "luciness".
Who knew there would be a Point Dexter Vent Troll sniffing through the list of names.

*KICK* You have been kicked out of this vent server.

Reason: Names start with capital letters. Unlike well, yours.

I'm in the middle of the game, so I can't be bothered changing my name. And for fuck sake, really.. who the hell cares??

So I joined again.

*KICK* You have been kicked out of this vent server.

Reason: Can you not read? CAPITAL LETTERS.

A fuckhead with a superiority complex.

Superiority complex refers to a subconscious neurotic mechanism of compensation developed by the individual as a result of feelings of inferiority. The feelings of inferiority in this specific complex are often brought on by real or perceived social rejection.
(stolen from wikipedia)

A fuckhead with a superiority complex over CAPITAL letters.

Trying to sound so superior and smart and looking down upon this poor stupid deluded soul who didn't start her nickname with a CAPITAL L.

Jeez, if you wanna feel smart go write up a dictionary or something. Vent trolling over people's UNCAPITALIZED nicknames is like well, LAME.

But then again, it was probably the highlight of Point Dexter's day.

"This idiot has no idea man. Doesn't even know proper grammer. Shouldn't be allowed to breed.." etc etc etc

Source: http://www.roflposters.com/internet-tough-guy-i-have-oli-ip-i-knov-who-you-are-and-liii-more-than-willing-to-settle-this-argument-face-to-fcking-face/949820

Work related stress

Can't stand people who suck up to get what they want. Can't stand that people who suck up to get what they want generally do get what they want.

Forget about doing a genuinely good job and your fair share of the work. Just suck up and work only while in the presence of a 'superior' and you will be fine.

Sugar coated words, fakey fake compliments, feigning being helpful and hardworking the 1% of time you are being watched and life will be a breeze.

The rest of the time you are unsupervised? Make personal phone calls. Run off and dump the work to others. You are not being watched so it doesn't matter coz SOMEONE ELSE WILL DO IT FOR YOU.

Well so what you say, if u can't beat em then join em? No fucking way. Suck up to someones ass and worship the ground they stand on? No thank you.

I know for a fact I'm definately not the most hard working person in the world. But I do my fair share of the work 90% of the time, not just in that supervised 5%.

Anyways.

People who don't know how to behave in public

So I'm walking along this quiet shopping centre with 2 friends I haven't seen for ages just talking and chatting.

The path is very wide, about 5 metres. We keep to the left and are taking up HALF the space maximum.

Suddenly we hear this old cranky "lady's" voice behind us, "Girls. Quickly. Hurry up."

Turning around to see who the bitch was, she seized the opportunity to walk right thru us.

The path is 5 metres wide. She had OVER HALF OF IT to walk through without (a) disturbing us (b) causing a fuss (c) being a fucking bitch in general.

Naturally, I (very reasonably) said to her witchlike figure walking away from us. "You do realize this is a pretty wide path right. You CAN just walk 2 extra steps to go around us."

Well of course fucking bitches don't like to be put in their place and this fucking bitch was no exception. Nuh uh. She turned around, looked me in the eye and said: "You're very lucky to even be here. So SHUT THE FUCK UP."

Wow. Just wow. Talk about bitter old hag that needs a good fuck.

Stupid hair

I hate my hair!!!

It's stupid and wavy and buffy like hell.

My fringe doesn't sit properly and waves around retardedly.

Plus I was an idiot and dyed it black.

Black hair doesn't suit me that much

Sighhhh...

To get it "right" again I need to go dye it brown and straighten it.

That's like 500+ :(

zzzZzz I hate having naturally wavy hair. It's retarded.

On better hair days .. *sighs wistfully*

Something fucked up

Introducing.... the "toe-G - where no barefoot occasion goes undressed!"

I kid you not, this is taken from the product website:

"toe-G is a unique new form of lingerie for the feet that has been designed for use during those barefoot moments when shoes are not the right look but a bare foot seems so under dressed"

Examples of toe-Gs:

Isn't this the most fucked up thing you have ever seen? Marketing some foot fetish product as mainstream attire....

OMG...

And in an even more fucked up venture they have a line of toe-Gs for KIDS... WTF!!!

ewwwwwwwwww~!~~~!!!!!!!

check it out at http://www.toe-g.com/

Merry Christmas + Happy New Year ~~!

A bit late for this but Merry Christmas and Happy New Year ~!!

Hope the alchohol wasn't abused tooo much...and everyone didn't end up waking up like this yesterday:

*cough cough* Rob *cough cough*

hahaha.. epic pictureeee

Anyways.. the Melbourne fireworks on NYE was pretty disapointing. They banged on for like 10 measly min and then it was over. We stood in like the middle of that place outside Flinders St station for a while and then started to wander off and...

GOD! SOME PEOPLE are such goddamn BARBARIANS.

It's SO FUCKEN crowded yet assholes still try to PUSH and SHOVE their fucken way thru. FUCK!!!! I hope their genitals rot and fall off!! YES i'm talking about u u fucken pale faced ugly tall guy with disgustingly styled wavy brown hair and fucken ugly disgusting top with ur retarded short pale friend who kept PUSHING and SHOVING even tho there was obviously NO FUCKEN SPACE to move. *mentally sends curses thru the air to him wherever the fuck he lives*. FUCKEN DICKHEAD!!!

Grr..I really hate inconsiderate assholes...

Once I was walking with my friend in the city arm in arm. And some BITCH just shoves her fucken self right in between us and walks right thru EVEN THO there was like PLENTY of space right around. Being young and stupid.. the only thing I could think of to say was "excuuuse me."

And then the BITCH turns around and yells at me maniacally "EXCUSE YOURSELF!!!!" and storms off.

OMG!! When i think about it i still feel so pissed coz I didn't yell something back at her!! Even tho it was like 5 - 6 years ago. DAMN!!

I also hate people who are walking towards u and when u guys kinda collide they just stand there and expect u to move for them.

When I was in China I was crossing one main road. Now in the middle of the road there are these 'channel' thingies . On the other side of the road this pompeous asshole loser was riding a fucken scooter. See pic below.

Lovely purple circle represents myself.

Random fugly shape in fugly color represents scooter riding asshole.

The green stuff is like.. plants n shit in teh middle of the road that u can't walk thru and the thick grey bars are these metals things that seperates the middle of the road into 5 'channels'. So I'm walking my dainty self along.. minding my own business and have almost come out of the "channel" (its really not a channel its like about .. 2 steps) when the fucken idiot decides he wants to cross the road by going thru the channel that i had ALMOST WALKED THRU. So basically he comes right up to the end of where the arrow is and blocks the two of us. I cant walk out and he can't ride thru coz he is IN THE FUCKING WAY.

It was a stalemate for like 5 whole seconds. He could have EASILY swerved around to go thru the channel next to this one. But NO. The FUCKING FUCKER just WAITED there for ME to REVERSE my footsteps to let HIM pass. FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCKING FUCK.

Well of course I wasn't gonan move for him so easily! So we kinda stood there and sized each other up for a bit (him with his shifty dodgy looking eyes).

But obivoulsy i wasn't intimidating enuff.. coz THEN.. get this. the fucker had the nerve to rev his scooter up and BEEP AT ME.

WHAT THE FUCK!!

omg..asshole to the fucking max!

In the end i DID move for him tho ...GRRRRRRRRRRRRRR...

coz i was walking on the street alone.. in china.. and my chinese isn't exactly great.. so didn't wanan cause trouble :(

aiyor... poor me ............

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Anyways... check out what I bought on a random wander thru work~~

POO-LAR BEAR! THE SUB ZERO POOPIN' HERO!

(I love stupid stuff like this =D =D =D)

Basically u rip half his head off.. shove the poo colored jellybeans thru his neck, then when u press down on him the jellybeans come out thru his ahem behind. It's soooo cuteeee.... been eatting jellybeans non stoppp hehehehe !!

Must remember to take a pic of the jellybean coming out~~~!

OMG.. i just found u can get other animals as well.... hahaha!!

THE SUPER DOOPER REINDEER POOPER

PENGUIN POOPER!

OMg!!! I'm too easily entertained....

I love stupid stuff liek this heeeheeeheee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Anyways.. on a completely unrelated note... Man.. I NEVER know the difference between 12AM and 12PM. So annoying. Is midnight considered night or day ?? I know noon is daytime right? And AM is daytime right? But then why is midnight AM?? Damn!!! So confusing...

I don't think I sound very intelligent on my blog :(

Noobs

Noobs are fine. Everyone was a noob once. But what i hate.. is when

NOOBS TRY TO FUCKING ACT LIKE THEY KNOW EVERYTHING
.

*Computer noob is searching for stuff on Limewire on my computer*

Me: Don't download random .exe files off Limewire, they might be viruses

Computer noob: Yeh yeh yeh~

*5 minutes later*

Me: Are you installing something??

Computer noob: Yeh.. just updating your limewire with this "limewirepatch.exe".

Me: I told you not to download .exe files

Computer noob: Don't worry.. this will make your downloads faster....... hey.. why did the computer freeze??

Me: .....................

People need to wake up :(

Example One

Girl meets boy, boy likes girl, boy chases girl, girl refuses but eventually yields under his persistence and persuasive powers.

AS SOON AS THEY get together... GIRL BECOMES A FUCKEN DOORMAT.

She thinks back to how good and sweet the guy was while he was chasing her and somehow OKs all the SHIT he puts her through. Meanwhile, on the side her friends are hopping around like grasshoppers in frustration as she just doesn't listen to REASON which they try to install (<- can't remember the right word) into her thick head.

Boy has questionable contact with his ex (going to her place for hours and hours thus being late for plans with Girl). Girl is upset about this.. But is TOO SCARED to tell Boy to stop as he will just throw a temper tantrum with her. However, when Girl talks to another guy Boy will be furious.

The guy literally changes overnight. Talks down to her, short temper etc. and him AND HIS FAMILY literally sucks her finances dry. In the whole time they dated, she worked FULL TIME and by the end of the relationship she had NO savings. at all. zilch. Not to mention the emotional trauma she had to go thru. In tears all the time and wondering "i dont know why he doesn't care!!"

The girl is ussually fiesty and you never have to worry about someone wronging her as she will always stand up for herself when she is out in public. However.. to every single one of the boys many and unreasonable demands she will meekly obey.

One of the many things she was put thru: Family invites her out for yum cha. Eat eat eat. Bill comes. Boy says: "oh by the way you have to pay."

and it gradually gets worse. Following that, the same scene ensues, however family decides it's very appopriate to invite friends and other relatives to enjoy the lovely meal as well. And guess who had to foot the lovely bill?

After this relationship ends (thank god) it was found out that the Boy was flirting around with other girls the whole time, Girl had no money in her pocket at all and Boy still owed her money. (Which he tried to pay back by hiding a 5 dollar note in a stack of 50s).

.. and it doesn't end here. You would have thought that after this relationship Girl would come out a better smarter person. But NO. She dates another guy who is EXACTLY like this one.. but worse. Despite countless warnings, AND while the relationship was not stable girl went to the bank and took out a loan with EIGHTEEN PER CENT interest and gave all the money to the guy. And she didn't even know what he was going to use the loan for! Nope!!! She was "too scared" to ask!

Despite giving him the loan money, the guy always had 'no money' for anything... and Girl basically gave him her bank card which he used to go out drinking with friends, buy DVDs for his ex and all the nice things in life etc...

Meanwhile, Girl had no money.. had to resort to eatting RICE AND BOILED SWEET POTATOs for lunch at work. One time she had no money to buy a tram ticket even. Asked the guy to BORROW 50 bucks... Guy: "I don't have 50 bux to spare"

One particular incident shows the sheer selfishness of the guy.

Girl is at home sleeping on a rare day off and guy is in the city doing god knows what.
He calls her up: "hey i need to park in the city but I have no change on me, can you come and gimme some."

So girl actually crawls out of bed, gets ready really quickly (in case he gets pissed she is taking too long) and takes the tram to the city.. TO GIVE HIM PARKING CHANGE.

She calls him up: "Hey I'm almost at the city now."
Guy: "Don't call me until you're HERE."


Example Two

Girl really loves Boy. Girl KNOWS boy is not a good person (will fuck anything that moves). Whenever Girl is overseas or not around, Boy will literally flirt with every normal and above girl he meets (and this includes Girl's friends and good friends). The guy is so fucken open about it it's not funny.

There could be a whole room full of people that knows about GIrl and Boys relationship yet Boy will still walk around asking girls for kisses etc. He also has a vile mouth. In one particular incident a girl was wearing a low cut top while playing drinking games with him. Boy says: "hey if you pull that top a bit lower i'll let u win this round for sure." WHO THE FUCK says shit like that ?!?!?! To a girl that is familiar with his GF too!!

Boy is always fucking around behind Girls back as she is often overseas.

Anyways, Boy is physically abusive with Girl too. When the mood strikes his fancy he will pin her down on the bed and slap her face repeatedly. She hides at home for days after these incidents so as to hide her swollen face.

Now, insert Girl's "good friend". All being roommates, Girl will go to this 'good friend' whenever she has troubles with Boy, and 'good friend' will comfort her. 'Good friend' also has a boyfriend of her own. However, 'good friend' has always had a thing for Boy and has fucked around with him while Girl was previously overseas. Recently, after a particularly bad argument 'good friend' managed to convince Girl to go back overseas away from Boy for some time apart.

After GIrl went back overseas, 'good friend' sleeps with Boy every night. Boy continually tries to pick up every time he goes out.

After finding out that 'good friend' has betrayed her, Girl not only accepts it, but is so generous as to think for Boy. "He has his needs and if i'm not there to give them to him then just let him do that if she ('good friend') wants to be so cheap. In the end they will have no chance as he wil be coming bak overseas to me soon anyway.". And just like that, Girl accepts it.


Example Three

Boy is an extreme jealous freak. It doesn't show that much after first getting together, but bit by bit Girl is seperated and isolated from all friends.

It starts off with the guilt (haha i typed guild) trips.
"Awww baby but i wanna see you can't you go out with your friends another time?"

Then moves on to the constant monitering.
While Girl is out with friends.
Boy calls: "Where are you? Who with? When are you going to be home? Don't go home too late."

The 'it's for your own good' spiel.
"He's such a player I don't want you to hang around people like that."
"Don't be too close to her shes a slut I don't want you to lower ur image by always being with her."

Continual guilt trips.
"Oh so you'll choose to go out with THEM over ME. So you wanna see THEM instead of ME. I thought I came first? Why aren't I coming first ?!?!"

Reminders of how 'lucky' you are.
"I have to do everything for you. You can't do anything by urself. You are nothing without me."
"I do all this because i CARE about you."

Put downs masked as love and care.
On a random day in the city, Girl sees acquaintance and waves and smiles at him.
Boy: "Why did you give such a SLUTTY smile to him. Are you that happy to see him? Why do you have to so actively say hi to him? Just say hi if he sees you and says it."

Warped logic.
"WHY DID YOU UNBLOCK ALL THE GUYS ON YOUR MSN? (after he blocked them all) ARE U THAT DESPERATE TO TALK TO THEM? ARE YOU THAT DESPERATE FOR GUY ATTENTION."

Basically, in the end Girl was isolated into a loser. Was distanced from many good friends. Was thought of as 'cold' when meeting new people as her behaviour was shaped like this by Boy. All because she didn't stop it at the start when it began to happen as she thought "he does this coz he cares". Argh!



See the pattern? These stories (all true) are so damn frustrating!! People will accept behaviour and things they would normally never accept when they are so blinded by people that are obviously no good for them at all.

The majority of the time things DON'T change for the better and they don't realize that the more they let the person act like this the more it will happen.

In my opinion, once someone starts treating and talking to you like shit, and they get what they want from treating you that way. Why would they go bak to being nice? Everyone is selfish in some way, and will always ask for more more more. As much as someone may hope it would happen, people are not gonna just suddenly wake up and go "oh wow i'm treating this person like shit maybe i should stop". They KNOW they are treating you crappy. But why stop when they are being rewarded for this bad behaviour? hmmmm?!

Idiots with idiot opinions

I hate idiot people with certain opinions who think that coz THEY believe something is right/wrong then anyone else (most of the time the majority of people) who are happily believing otherwise and NOT affecting the idiots should somehow be forced to compensate or someshit for them.

It's so fucken stupid. I mean jeez.. believe whatever the fuck you want no one really gives a shit but just coz its different from everyone else doesn;t mean u have to BULLY other people and make them feel bad about themselves. **This causes low self esteem.. even suicide.**

Take for example in some places, they aren't even allowed to openly celebrate Christmas.... yeh REALLY! Instead of "Merry Christmas" you're suposed to say "Happy holidays" or some fucking stupid gay shit like that. Seriously, "happy holidays".. how fucken gay does that sound!!! It's like something you say when you're high on alchohol for shits n giggles. But no... in these places instead of the "Merry Christmas" you have like "happy holidays" coz like.. people who don't celebrate christmas might get offended. WTF. DUDE. SO FUCKEN STUPID IS IT NOT.

ALSO.. i remember once i typed to someone "Merry Xmas ^_^". And the response? "Don't type Christmas as "Xmas".. it takes out the "Christ" and is wrong ". Umm.. ok.. I was genuinly wishing that you were like happy wutever on that day.. and THE ONLY THING you can think of is to pick on my fucking spelling with your STUPID interpretations that WHO THE HELL WOULD FOLLOW coz like the rest of the world isn't so fucking DEEP LIKE THAT. Like OH MY GOD? FUCK YOU. XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS XMAS .........

ANyways....

Date : 4 November 2008 (Melbourne Cup Day - horseys... heeeheeeheee!! *giggle giggle*)
Time: 4:57PM
Place: Work (shithole)
This is what happened...:

Queen Lucy (to someone walking in the door): Hi, just to let you know we'll be closing in about 3 minutes

Opinionated fuck: Why?

Queen Lucy: We're closing at five o'clock today

Opinionated fuck (crossing her opinionated arms over her opinionated body and screwing up her opinionated face): WHy?

Queen Lucy (adressing the opinionated fuck with elegance only seen in that of royalty): Coz of the Melbourne Cup. We close early on public holidays.

Opinionated fuck: That's RIDICULOUS coz Melbourne Cup shouldn't even be a public holiday.
Opinionated fuck turns around and stampedes off unelegantly.

Queen Lucy gracefully stamps the seal of approval for a public execution that night.


SEE!!! What a STUPID FUCKING BITCH. Like i GIVE A SHIT that SHE doesn't believe its a public holiday. Like ANYONE gives a shit about her pathetic thoughts. OK.. if you think that its not a public holiday then GOOD FOR YOU. If you so believe it should be a normal day then YOU FUCKING treat it like that YOURSELF. NO ONE CARES. Feeling the need to try and infect my mind with her sad lonely bitter self. FUCKING IDIOT!!!!!








**made up fact for the sake of my argument

on attention whores

I fucking can NOT stand attention seeking whores playing computer games. You are a girl. You don't have a freaken penis when you open your legs.. GET OVER YOURSELF.

Ok. You are a girl playing a GAME. You are doing something that is supposed to apparently be a mainly 'male' only thing. We got it. Don't need to fucken bring it up every fucken second "imagirlimagirlimagirl!!'
.

SHUT THE FUCK UP
.

The typical conversation (in wow)

Someone: great job guys

ASW (attention seeking whore) : GUYS?!?! I'm a girl :)

Loser 1: OMGAGIRL

ASW: [insert some supposedly modest remark about her being a girl again and feign shock that people are surprised shes a girl]

Loser 2: Are you hot babe

Loser 3: Sexy, do you have msn?

So freaken annoying.

And then there are the idiot girls who start acting like hot shit when loser guys start hitting on them over the internet.

A typical example is Emily, blood elf hunter on Dreadmaul.

She's made herself famous flaunting, advertising, broadcasting her FEMALE self over Wow. Thinking she is top shit coz she can tell loser guys "stop following me around like a lost puppy", "the 13 year olds that wanan cyber with me".

Umm.. reality check. Guys hitting on you over the net does NOT MAKE YOU HOT.

Talking like you're freaken Miss Universe rejecting would be suitors.
Fucken idiot.

When I was playing dota on BA I also came across another idiot.

Back in (oldschool) 3c (3 corridoors) days, I was in a particular game where the person who picked Potm (one of the best heros on the good side) was a total freaken noob, their name was "Princess".

This person had no clue what she was doing.. at all. The first skill she picked was searing arrows, and while some pros can pull it off she was just fully shit. Turned it on autocast and just let it auto attack anything. Didn't time the hits nothing.

While I have nothing against noobs.. the other players on the team you could tell were really "serious" i-want-to-win types. This one particular idiot (we shall refer to him as 'idiot' from hereon) kept getting pissy at me for not stunning the opposing hero (I was mountain king and oom - out of mana).

Anyways, the game had only gone for a little while, everyone was about level 4 but Princess on level 2 just had her second death.

Me: "man princess is a noob"

Idiot: "princess is my GF"

Me: "so? she's a noob"

Idiot: "STFU shes a girl"

WUT THE FUCK?!?!?! He's playing so serious serious yelling at me for being "A FUCKING NOOB" not stunning when i was fucking OUT OF MANA while Princess dies twice letting Archi get freaken strong and I can't call her a noob coz "its a girl".

FUCKING most stupid reasoning I have ever heard in my LIFE.

Like wtf?!?! It's a GIRL. Oh wow. BIG DEAL. I don't give a flying shit if its your gf your mom or your grandma playing. Is the fact that "oh-mi-god-princess-is-a-girl-playing-games" gonna like 'excuse' her from everything? i think NOT. FUcking idiot. Showing off to everyone oh look my gf is so cool she plays dota with me. FUCKING PISS ME OFF MAN.

And what's more annoying is I can't exactly say "so fucking what i'm a girl too get over it dipshit." Coz that just sounds UNGIRLY and makes me sound like an attention whore too. Not to mention he prolly won't believe me coz I just wouldn't be able to type it in any other girl way that would not be agressive and sarcastic. GRRRRRRRRRR.

Let me try to type that out girlishly...

"ohhhh Princess is a girl? I'm a girl too :) [YOU FUCKING DIPSHIT FUCK LIKE I GIVE A FUCK SHES A GIRL?!?!]
"

To add fuel to the fire some other idiot on the team immediatly said "is she hot".

To which Princess replied with the age old attention-whore-trying-to-be-cute response of...

^^

Hmm... attention seeking whores shot be shot.